- Part 6 of 6: Brené with Ashley and Barrett for the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection -

Part 6 of 6: Brené with Ashley and Barrett for the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection

It’s the final episode of our six-part Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection with my sisters, Ashley and Barrett, and we finish strong with the last of the Guideposts: #9: Cultivating Meaningful Work: Letting Go of Self-Doubt and “Supposed To” and #10: Cultivating Laughter, Song, and Dance: Letting Go of Being Cool and “Always in Control.” We talk about how doing meaningful work connects us and how being cool is honestly, very lonely. And we finally reach the moment Ashley and Barrett have been waiting for all along—and possibly the only reason they agreed to do this series—they finally get to share their top five songs.

Part 5 of 6: Brené with Ashley and Barrett for the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection

In this second-to-last episode of the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection, I have a couple of in-real-time revelations: namely that I suck at cultivating quality rest and play (a.k.a. Guidepost #7). Thankfully, on the flip side, I’ve gotten pretty good over the years at cultivating calm and stillness (thank you, five-mile-long daily walks) and letting go of anxiety as a lifestyle (Guidepost #8). We dig in and ask the existential question: What does your ideal restful vacation look like?

Part 4 of 6: Brené with Ashley and Barrett for the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection

This might just be the toughest, most personal episode yet in the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection. As Ashley, Barrett, and I tackle Guideposts #5 — Cultivating Intuition and Trusting Faith: Letting Go of the Need for Certainty — and #6 — Cultivating Creativity: Letting Go of Comparison, we reflect on our upbringing, which was marked with uncertainty, unpredictability, and plenty of eggshell living. It’s no surprise then, that letting go of certainty is one of my greatest challenges. We talk about that and how we try to show up differently in the families we are raising now.

Part 3 of 6: Brené with Ashley and Barrett for the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection

We’re at the halfway mark of our six-episode Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection, and this week we dig into Guideposts #3 — Cultivating a Resilient Spirit: Letting Go of Numbing and Powerlessness — and #4 — Cultivating Gratitude and Joy: Letting Go of Scarcity and Fear of the Dark. Ashley, Barrett, and I look at our lives post-COVID and talk candidly about the ways we’ve numbed over the past year—and how we’ve lost some of our gratitude practices. These two things may be related. Moving forward, we (re)commit to making wholeheartedness a family affair.

Part 2 of 6: Brené with Ashley and Barrett for the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection

It’s Part 2 of our six-part Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection, with my sisters, Ashley and Barrett. In this episode, we start with Guidepost #1: Cultivating Authenticity and Letting Go of What People Think and move into Guidepost #2: Cultivating Self-Compassion and Letting Go of Perfectionism. Practicing authenticity–and yes, it is a daily practice–is really connected to boundary work, so we admit the individual fears we each experience when setting boundaries. We also talk about perfectionism as a process addiction, and how our imperfections are not inadequacies, but instead, they’re reminders that we’re all in this together.

Part 1 of 6: Brené with Ashley and Barrett for the Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection

Join me and my sisters, Ashley and Barrett, for Part 1 of our six-part Summer Sister Series on The Gifts of Imperfection. In this episode, we start with the Introduction, go over the 10 Guideposts, and talk about our personal Wholehearted Inventory scores. Surgeon General’s Warning: This is about as real as it gets. Equal amounts laughing, hard conversations, surprising revelations, and cussing. And some singing. But I file that under painful and/or laughing. If this sounds like your kind of conversation, join us for the rest of the series.

Brené with Dr. Clint Smith on How the Word Is Passed

I’m talking to writer, teacher, and scholar Dr. Clint Smith about his new book, How the Word Is Passed: A Reckoning with the History of Slavery Across America. We talk about the history of slavery in this country and how we approach, excavate, recognize, and react to that history—and how we have a responsibility and accountability to get the story and the history right. Because when we can be honest about the history, we can begin to acknowledge it, reckon with it, and heal from it.

Brené with Ashley C. Ford on Storytelling, Truth-Telling, and Liberation

In this episode, I’m talking to writer Ashley C. Ford about her new memoir, Somebody’s Daughter, and how it is written for everyone who walks into a bookstore and feels like they can’t find a book about themselves—and there are a lot of us looking for that. We talk about the writing process, the truth-telling process, and how connecting the two can be liberating not only to us, but also to others. Our conversation is not just a story about her life, it is a story about life and what connects us to show us that we are not alone–and that we are braver than we know.

Brené with Justina Blakeney on Creating Space to Reflect Our Stories

In this episode, I talk with Justina Blakeney, designer, artist, and New York Times best-selling author about how we can create spaces to tell our stories. We talk about how color, pattern, plants, and windy paths can be personalized to help express our individuality, and how connecting with both our unique roots and adventures allows us to not only look at objects and space differently, but also to see ourselves and our worlds in new ways.

Brené with Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Bruce D. Perry on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

This week I’m talking to Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Bruce Perry about their new book, What Happened to You? Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing. We define trauma and talk about why big and small traumas activate our stress response systems and create emotional, physical, and social consequences, and how we can find the path to healing.

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