Brené with Drs. John and Julie Gottman on What Makes Love Last Brené with Drs. John and Julie Gottman on What Makes Love Last
February 3, 2021

Brené with Drs. John and Julie Gottman
on What Makes Love Last

Drs. Julie and John Gottman have taken more than 40 years of breakthrough research and written or co-written more than 40 books on marital stability, divorce prediction, and how science can help people have successful, loving relationships. We talk about the toll the pandemic has taken on couples, their work in the context of current events, and practical shifts that can help us take care of each other.

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Drs. John and Julie Gottman

Drs. John and Julie GottmanDr. John Gottman, world-renowned for his work on marital stability and divorce prediction, has conducted over 40 years of breakthrough research with thousands of couples. He is author of over 200 published academic articles and author or co-author of more than 40 books, including The New York Times bestseller, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, What Makes Love Last, The Relationship Cure, Why Marriages Succeed or Fail, and Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child.

 

Dr. Julie Gottman, a highly respected clinical psychologist and sought internationally as an expert on marriage, domestic violence, gay and lesbian adoption, same-sex marriage, and parenting issues. She is the co-creator of the immensely popular The Art and Science of Love weekend workshop for couples and co-designer of the national clinical training program in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.  Julie is author or co-author of 6 books, including Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage, And Baby Makes Three, 10 Principles for Doing Effective Couples Therapy, The Man’s Guide to Women, and The Marriage Clinic Casebook. The Gottmans’ most recent book together is Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love.

Dr. John Gottman shares 5 favorite songs. Click to listen now on Spotify.
Dr. John Gottman shares 5 favorite songs. Click to listen now on Spotify.
Dr. Julie Gottman shares 5 favorite songs. Click to listen now on Spotify.
Dr. Julie Gottman shares 5 favorite songs. Click to listen now on Spotify.

Show Notes

The Gottman Relationship Coach The Gottman Relationship Coach is an online program where they have taken the research-based skills and communication tools and put them together with new content for a series of video programs that you can work through at your own pace. You can find that at Gottman.com.

Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by John Gottman Ph.D., Julie Schwartz Gottman Ph.D., Doug Abrams, Rachel Carlton Abrams M.D.

What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal by John Gottman Ph.D., Nan Silver

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert by John Gottman Ph.D., Nan Silver

Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage: America’s Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship by John Gottman Ph.D., Julie Schwartz Gottman Ph.D., Joan Declaire

The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships by John Gottman Ph.D.

Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman Ph.D.

10 Principles for Doing Effective Couples Therapy by Julie Schwartz Gottman Ph.D., John Gottman Ph.D.

The Marriage Clinic Casebook by Julie Schwartz Gottman Ph.D.

And Baby Makes Three: The Six-Step Plan for Preserving Marital Intimacy and Rekindling Romance After Baby Arrives by John Gottman Ph.D., Julie Schwartz Gottman Ph.D.

Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child The Heart of Parenting by John Gottman Ph.D., Joan Declaire

The Man’s Guide to Women: Scientifically Proven Secrets from the Love Lab About What Women Really Want by John Gottman Ph.D., Julie Schwartz Gottman Ph.D., Douglas Abrams, Rachel Carlton Abrams M.D., Lara Love Hardin

The Four Horsemen: The Antidotes (Includes a handout)

The Four Horsemen and How to Stop Them with Their Antidotes handout

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